Here at frank.org.au, we answer the burning questions that anyone with a penis might have!
Is my penis normal?
Well, there is no “normal” penis size or shape and all penises are different. Porn has negatively influenced people’s perspectives of what is normal and what is not normal. Any size, shape, length or girth – you name it, is normal. What is important to note though is if there are changes to what’s normal with your penis like pain or discharge (stuff leaking out your penis), then it’s something that needs to be checked out by a health worker.
I’ve got a lump in my testicle- what should I do?
First of all, it’s really important to be checking your testicles (balls) regularly to feel if there are any changes happening. If you do find something different from your normal like a lump, then it’s important to go and get it checked out. Usually this is nothing to worry about but it can be something more problematic like testicular cancer.
How can I make going to a health worker/GP/doctor a more comfortable experience?
Finding a GP who you are comfortable with is important. Sometimes you can feel uncomfortable seeing someone that the rest of your family sees – that’s ok. Go find a doctor/health practitioner or a sexual health clinic that you’re comfortable going to.
If you’re uncomfortable showing your testicles or penis to someone else, you can always tell your health practitioner beforehand that you feel uncomfortable, like “Look, I’m feeling really uncomfortable about this. I haven’t talked to anybody else about this, but I have a problem and I’m wanting to talk to you about it”. Sometimes saying something like this up front can decrease your anxiety a bit and make you feel more at ease.
Remember that health professionals are there to help you, nothing you say will be something new and they have dealt with all kinds of patients and all kinds of conditions. They have seen so many penises and testicles, yours won’t be anything out of the ordinary for them.
What should I expect at a sexual health check?
Sexual health checks are confidential, quick and easy. It usually involves peeing in a jar, rubbing a swab over your penis and/or anus, and having a blood sample taken. The health worker will talk to you about how many partners you have had, what kind of sexual activities you’ve been engaged in and whether you have any symptoms. It also provides a judgment free opportunity to discuss any sexual health questions that you might have.
How often should I be getting a sexual health check?
If you’re having sex, it is recommended that you get a sexual health check every 6 months. Also, get a sexual health check if you start noticing symptoms or change partners.
Many STIs don’t have any symptoms, but can cause long-term health problems so it’s important to get tested.
Click here to find your closest sexual health clinic.
Got more questions? Speak to a Talkline nurse on 1300 658 886 Monday to Friday 8am-8pm, or email talkline@fpnsw.org.au
